Often we think that magic has to do with incredible outcomes in our lives. When your expectations focus on the outcomes you create tension. Magic in life does not lay in the outcome, but in your desires.
How do you relate to your desires? Do you get tense? Do you create anxiety about what you desire? Do you focus on what you are missing or do you focus on what you can manifest? Magic is about how you relate to your desires.
When you choose to change your relationship with your desires everything changes around you. Too often you have desires and yet deep inside, you don’t believe that you will ever be able to manifest them. There may be several things to explore:
1. Your desires are mixed with fear
a. Trust. How do you trust? What do you need to be able to trust that your desires can be manifested in life? Do you need a plan? Do you need to know how to get to what you want? Can you trust even if you cannot anticipate the process?
b. Self esteem. How much do you believe that you are enough? How much can you believe that you can get what you want? What part of you is in the way?
2. You have desires and you believe they will hurt someone else. It is not ok to serve yourself first.
a. Guilt. What do you get out of focusing on others needs? What part of you are you protecting? Are you afraid to be rejected?
3. You have desires and you believe they are not important.
a. Reason vs emotions. You think things can wait. As you do this you become more and more judgmental about yourself and others.
If you want to create magic in your life, be curious about your process and realize that you have too many desires that are repressed, neglected or criticized. Reinvent your relationship with your desires if you want to create magic in your life!
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