Letter to Myself

I don’t really like writing a letter to myself, although my mind does it constantly. I don’t want to commit to anything for the new year and I am not interested in having new good resolutions or setting new goals; I just want to be.

Yet, a new year gives me the opportunity to remember the cycles of life; and assess my challenges, my gifts, and the quality of my happiness.

I know the road ahead is bumpy. Unpredictable, drastic shifts are still part of the picture. How do I prepare myself for any catastrophes, injustices, or destructions? How do I stay engaged and connected in a world that sometimes gives me so much heart break?

I need to keep doing what I am doing.  I need to keep strengthening, from within, over, and over my personal foundation. The more vibrant I am, the less clingy I become. The more grounded I am, the less attached I am to external events. For this to happen, I need the discipline to love myself over and over again. From there, I can identify my shadow, without a story, and be seen fully. From there, I am able to be vulnerable and stay connected in the most uncomfortable times.

As I love myself, I become lighter from letting go of heavy baggage or strong pre-conditioned behaviors. I open the door to the adventure of living beyond good and bad.

Will you write a letter to yourself?

With much love,

Tejpal

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One of the greatest challenges in today’s culture is that we have forgotten what a community is. True community is not built on uniformity; it is built on authenticity.

A community is a space where each person is encouraged to connect with their true self. From that place of inner truth, we learn to dance with each other’s uniqueness. We grow by witnessing one another. We learn to love more fully, expand our awareness, and open to perspectives beyond our own.

We may bump into each other’s, experience our fears, projections, hopes, or attachments and in doing so, we heal. We stay awake and stretch our hearts wider than we ever imagined possible.

True community is rooted in diversity. If our opinions, belief systems, our tastes are exactly the same, our sense of self begins to dissolve. Belonging does not come from subscribing to an ideology, it comes from living in alignment with our truth and being accepted for it.

Nature offers us the perfect example; it thrives in diversity. As humans, it is our responsibility to build, nurture, and participate in communities. When we unplug from this essential connection, everything begins to fall apart, and human values erode.

Remember, we always have a choice.